Modulating our behavior depending on who we are interacting with can be considered ‘fake’ but it could be either of a few things: - it could be that we have been wired with social conditioning to forever be understanding and considering others’ point of views. Being considerate and lending a ear is one thing... but when we have been made to feel like our own views are ‘stupid’ or ‘not smart enough’ or ‘way too out of the box’ then many almost bury their ‘true self’ under a blanket made of mirrors reflecting only the point of views of those around us. Certain cultures and traditions especially expect that of ‘girls’... the more accomodating you are the more tolerant you are hence the more sustainable and great you are... - it could also be that certain aspects of you are highlighted and you are not as vulnerable with certain people hence you are able to exhibit many other aspects and colors of your personality that you couldn’t with so many before... .
One thing i’ve experienced and observed (am trying not to say learnt is because I feel I am only just beginning to learn a lot that is out there) is that your CIRCUMSTANCES shape MUCH OF YOUR PERSONALITY. You are a product of your circumstances to a large extent. You have the power and the ability to change any of that or all of that when you choose to do so. .
Being your true authentic self can be a life-long goal or a goal you did not even know you wish to pursue, but it is in that moment of dropping all falsities and inhibitions and realizing that ALL WE ARE IS JUST LOVE - that inevitability is what has driven and keep driving the human race forward - that is my truth - to come from a place of love.
Be a compassionate soul but be an authentic compassionate soul. Don’t bend your ethical back to adjust with the masses, don’t dissolve your love that makes you hug trees and cry for the passer-by that laughs at you, don’t surrender the Consciousness in you (in us all) for this 3rd-dimensional egoic sense of success and popularity. .
You are amazing. You are enough. You are ALL. You are God. You are the Universe. You are human. You are a chameleon :). You are it all. .