“Sometimes I feel like I don’t fit in the same way other people do.
Sometimes I feel like there is a group who maybe doesn’t really want me there. Sometimes I wonder why I wasn’t invited.
Circles are great if you’re on the inside. They’re can be fun if you’re in one, but circles can be awfully cruel to the outsider.
They can be exclusive.
They can be excluding.
They can be exhausting.
They can be cliquish.
They can be childish.
They are far, far too common.
Stop building circles, and build a U. Leave room for everyone. Make a way so anyone, any “you” can walk up and feel like they have a place to stand.
Leave room for good people who look different than you, who run in different crowds than you, who like different things than you, who come from different places than you. Differences were never made to divide us. They were made to build us, and to teach us, to fill in the gaps where our own gifts give way and come up short.
Have your few trusted friends.
You can’t be best friends with everyone.
But you can notice everyone. You can make room for everyone. You can be kind and generous and thoughtful and sympathetic to everyone. You can smile to everyone. You can make eye contact with everyone. You can probably even offer a simple “hello” to everyone.
When you are out with a group, when you’re at a meeting, or an event, or a Bible study. When you’re at a kid’s soccer game, or a school function, or absolutely any public setting — lift up your unsuspecting head and look for the lonely. Chat with the new. Invite the introverts who will never invite themselves. Hug the hurting. Make room for more.” 💕Author unknown, but I love this and can so relate. Sometimes it’s best not to be in the clicks. People can be judgmental and cruel. Don’t be like them. Live with an open heart. 💕
#feels #blackandwhite #quotes #theoutsider #avoidthefakes #landscapephotography #landscape #bwphotography #words #nature #mountains #arkmophs #wilderness #arkansas #introvert #HollyDaniellePhotography #dontbeliketherestofthemdarling #truth #ouachitamountains #wordsofwisdom #bebetter #love #bwphotooftheday #sky #specialneedsparent